Lauren Hayes
Last Aired on January 10, 2025

Lauren Hayes is relationship coach specializing in supporting ethically non-monogamous (ENM) couples, including swingers and the ENM-curious. Trained in both life and relationship coaching, she helps couples navigate and engage the swinging and non-monogamous community in the healthiest of ways. She holds the perspective that non-monogamous relationships share the same foundations of any healthy relationship, however, they need to operate at a higher level of health to accommodate the additional complexities. Her approach aims to help couples build their ideal relationship, regardless of whether or how many others it includes. She also brings personal experience to her coaching having been married for 19+ years and ENM (swingers) for the last 6+ years. She offers coaching and practical advice grounded in her own life as well as professional training - she goes by Swinging Lifestyle Coach and her website is SwingingLifestyleCoach.com.
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The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives
Welcome to an evolved "The Examined Lives" podcast! What started as a deep dive into the drama of the The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives reality show has evolved into a bold exploration of...
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SWINGING, THE LIFESTYLE AND NON-MONOGAMY
January 10, 2025
Are you interested in or curious about swinging or non-monogamy, but unsure how to bring it up to your partner? Are you wondering if the Swinging Lifestyle is right for you and your partner?
Join us for our 8th anniversary episode with Relationship Coach, Lauren Hayes, author of For Better and Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-monogamist, as we review her book from the inside out, each lesson bringing its own dimension to the discussion of: Would we? Could we? Should we?

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For Better or Even Better
By Lauren Hayes
What if what you've been taught about love and relationship was only half the story?
Forget the one-size-fits-all approach to building the love and life of your dreams. In For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist, Lauren shares her deeply personal journey and hard-won insights into building a life and relationships on her own terms. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy or just want to create deeper connections in any relationship style, this book is your guide.
These 7 lessons will guide you down your own path of discovery. You’ll learn:
- How Lauren redefined love and loyalty in her marriage, turning challenges into deeper intimacy.
- The art of having difficult conversations with honesty, humor, and grace.
- How to embrace vulnerability and emotional transparency as a superpower.
- Ways to balance individuality and togetherness in long-term partnerships.
- Why non-monogamy is less about sex and more about designing the life you truly want.
This transformative book includes:
- Candid personal stories that bring each lesson to life.
- Actionable conversations prompts to help you apply the principles to your own relationships.
- A fresh perspective on how to rewrite the rules of love for the modern age.
Whether you’re monogamous, non-monogamous, or somewhere in between, For Better or Even Better offers a powerful roadmap to create a love that’s authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely yours.

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ToplessTravel.com has been given the responsibility to create, organize and facilitate travel events specifically for the members of SwingLifestyle.com. Our staff has 15 years of experience in the "Lifestyle" travel industry. We have not only created specialty trips to the usual swinger destinations, but new and exciting events in unique "Main Stream" destinations that are "lifestyle friendly" and are conducive to meeting the "locals" to play with.

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