Guidance and Counseling for those looking to Educate, Enlighten and Evolve their Intimacy

Relationships and sexuality are complex, and there isn’t a guide for each dynamic, and some of us were never taught how to navigate those waters. We work with couples, individuals, and those in alternative relationships seeking change, connection, or more in their relationships or sexuality. Many of us lack communication, have sexual disappointments, mismatched libidos, and more.  We help design a relationship or sexuality that fits your needs instead of how society tells you things should be. 

Stephanie is a Sex Therapist, & Licensed Mental Health Professional. She holds her Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, specializing in alternative relationships and a PhD in Clinical Sexology. 

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THE INS AND OUTS OF STRAP-ON SEX

September 27, 2024

Are you curious about strap-on sex and the intimacy and connection it can provide you and your partner? Do you need expert guidance on how strap-on toys can empower you and enrich your sex life? Join Dr Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, and Sex & Relationship Coach, Cherish Amber, discussing the sensual world of strap-on sex, the complexities and joys of strap-on play as they delve into topics that range from the emotional aspects of strap-on intimacy to the technicalities of harness selection and usage. Cherish's approach to clarity, communication, consent, and connection provides invaluable insights for those looking to deepen their sexual experiences and understand the transformative power of shared pleasure. Whether venturing into this territory for the first time or looking to enhance your current practice, this episode promises to educate and inspire. Get ready to challenge the myths, embrace the learning curve, and celebrate the diversity of sexual expression with Cherish's compassionate and informed perspective.

SEX AND DATING TIPS AND TRICKS

September 13, 2024

Are you playing the dating game and always wondering what is the appropriate amount of time you should wait before having sex with a new partner? Join Sexologist, Dr. Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she chats with Laurie Gerber, a renowned relationship coach and co-president of the Handel Group. Together, they discuss new romantic relationships and the natural instinct to explore sexual connection with any new partner. Laurie shares her insights on the importance of self-awareness and communication in setting your own pace for intimacy, as well as navigating your partner's comfort level. Drawing on her vast experience in helping individuals and couples build healthy, fulfilling relationships, Laurie offers practical tips for assessing your own needs and boundaries and making sure you are on the same page as your potential partner. Whether you've just started dating or are looking to reevaluate your current relationship, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance on the intricate balance of timing and intimacy.

INSIDE A VEGAS BROTHEL WITH ALICE LITTLE

June 14, 2024

Do you ever wonder what goes on inside a brothel? How would you like to explore what it takes to thrive in this profession while working hard to break down the stereotypes surrounding it? Join Sexologist, Dr Stephanie Sigler, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she conducts an intimate and eye-opening discussion with Alice Little, the highest-earning legal brothel worker at the iconic Chicken Ranch in Nevada. Alice takes us behind the scenes of the legal sex work industry, sharing her personal experiences, challenges, and the fascinating journey that led her to become one of the most successful professionals in this alluring field. From navigating client relationships to maintaining personal boundaries, she offers a unique perspective on the intricacies of this sexy world.

RECOVERY FROM RELIGIOUS SEXUAL TRAUMA AND PURITY CULTURE

March 22, 2024

Have you experienced religious sexual trauma? Perhaps you are looking for impactful ways to navigating healing and thriving after experiencing the effects of purity culture? Join Dr. Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy together with Sex Therapist, Dr. Tina Sellers as they delve into the challenges that individuals may face in recovering from religious sexual trauma and breaking free from the harmful messages perpetuated by purity culture. Through sharing personal stories, professional insights, and practical strategies, this episode aims to empower survivors and provide them with the tools necessary to heal, reclaim their sexuality, and cultivate a fulfilling life post-trauma. Join them on this transformative journey of healing and thriving as they navigate the complexities of religious, sexual trauma, and purity culture.

TOPLESS TRAVEL – OVERCOMING TRAUMA TO GET YOUR SEXY BACK

January 12, 2024

Do you ever find yourself feeling helpless when it comes to dealing with trauma in your family, especially when it directly affects your relationship and your sex life? Perhaps you’re looking for ways to overcome the negative energy and get your mojo back!

Join us with Topless Travel on board the Bliss Cruise as we chat with one of our resident Counselors, Sexologist, Dr Stephanie Sigler, from Evolve your Intimacy, who has a full schedule of workshops on the ship, as she shares her own personal struggles with self-soothing when she experienced several episodes of family trauma last year. She provides guidance in how to deal with grief, mood swings, and emotional instability. She emphasizes the benefit of staying close to your partner even if they don’t want to be intimate, and more importantly, how to deal with your own emotions when you don’t have someone to console you.

SETTING BOUNDARIES FOR SEXIER AND HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS

December 29, 2023

Do you struggle with saying no, being taken advantage of, or feeling overwhelmed in your relationships?  Whether you're a seasoned boundary-setter or just starting to explore this concept, you may need some wisdom that will inspire and equip you to build the meaningful connections you deserve.

Join Sexologist, Dr Stephanie Sigler from Evolve Your Intimacy, together with Author and Coach, Heather Claus from couriouser.life, as they dive deep into the world of boundaries. You will discover how to revolutionize the way you relate to yourself and others. With Heather's expertise and practical advice, you will understand better how setting clear boundaries can lead to more fulfilling relationships, improved self-esteem, and enhanced personal growth.

SEX, DRUGS, TRAUMA AND SWINGING

October 20, 2023

Do you ever wonder how social media influencers deal with the constant negative feedback from the haters and the nay-sayers and how it might affect their mental health?

Join our guest host, Dr Stephanie Sigler, from Evolve your Intimacy, as she gets personal with Eric B Zink, an accomplished social media influencer dealing with the topics of lifestyle, addiction, and mental health, as he shares his first-hand experience with the intense pressures and challenges that come along with being at the top of the social media game including the rise and impact of cancel culture, and dealing with online criticism and how it affects your mental health

They open-up a discussion about the swinging lifestyle and the role social media plays in this alternative realm of relationships, the norms, the stigmas and the impact of social media on personal connections in general.

SEXUAL AND ROMANTIC INTIMACY

September 8, 2023

Have you ever wondered why some relationships feel shallow and lacking in depth, while others bring us a profound sense of belonging and understanding? Do you want to learn how to cultivate deeper connections and experience greater joy in your relationships? If your answer is yes, then you're in the right place!
Join Dr Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy with Intimacy Expert, Beth Darling, as they get into the different types of intimacy! Intimacy goes far beyond the realm of romance, and it touches every aspect of our lives. Whether it's our relationship with ourselves, our friends, or even our coworkers, understanding the different ways we connect and build meaningful bonds opens up endless possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment.
If this resonates with you, stay tuned as we dive into the 5 kinds of intimacy, uncovering the secrets to creating deeply fulfilling connections that will transform your life.

TRIPLE X FOR BETTER SEX

June 16, 2023

Do you struggle with sexual communication? Are you interested in exploring your sexual desires safely with your partner but are unsure where to begin? Join Dr. Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy, as she interviews Jack Polo, creator of Triple X Playground, the “Best Adult Sex Game Ever!” ™. TXP has created a naughty adult playground where “You Set the Environment, We Take It There” ™. This holistic tool is designed to help couples with those unfulfilled moments waiting to be unleashed, by providing the most exciting fantasies to reach the highest levels of climax while bridging the gap of communication, building trust, and creating stronger bonds in any adult relationship free of judgment and awkwardness.

TOPLESS TRAVEL - SEXY PLAYSHOPS ON BLISS CRUISE

May 12, 2023

Are you interested in going back to school… on a cruise ship? How about taking sex-ed classes on the Bliss Cruise? If knowledge brings power, then learning more about intimacy must bring more sexual pleasure, and a stronger, more secure relationship. Join us with Sexologist, Dr Stephanie, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as we find out all about her most recent voyage with Topless Travel on The Bliss Cruise doing her workshops and play-shops to another sold-out audience of open-minded people ready to explore their sexuality. There’s no better place for couples to learn together and practice their new skills while on vacation with other sexy couples on the high seas.

TOPLESS TRAVEL - SEXY PLAYSHOPS TO EVOLVE YOUR INTIMACY

February 2, 2023

Do you ever wonder how open-minded people learn their skills and continue exploring their sexuality as they navigate their sex lives within the alternative non-monogamous lifestyle? Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, together with Sexologist, Dr Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy, as we find out all about her first experience doing workshops and play-shops on The Bliss Cruise to a sold-out audience hungry to learn more about expanding their sexual relationships in order to continue to enjoy great sex together.

TO SWING OR NOT TO SWING - GUIDELINES

December 16, 2022

Have you decided to open up your relationship with your primary partner but you don't know where to start? Are you wondering what it means to be “in the lifestyle”? Join Dr Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve your Intimacy Podcast, as they take you through the various aspects of ethical non-monogamy and all the related pros and cons, ups and downs, and relationship dynamics that will help you decide if the lifestyle is right for you. From communication skills to relationship contracts, they get into the harder conversations that you need to have with your partner in order to be successful in the lifestyle or simply enjoy exploring your sexuality together.

PORNSTAR TIPS AND TRICKS TO UNLEASH YOUR SEXUAL SUPERPOWERS

July 15, 2022

Have you ever wondered what it's like for a male porn star who has to perform sexually on cue, in front of a camera? Perhaps they have some tips and tricks that can help you become a better lover? Join Dr Stephanie and Fox from Evolve your Intimacy as they chat with one of the most recognized performers in the adult film industry, Erik Everhard, who has dedicated his time and effort to helping high achievers by teaching them elite-level sexual skills in order to master the bedroom like they dominate the boardroom. Find out more about how men can unleash their sexual superpowers using pornstar tricks and tips.

HISTORY AND EVOLUTION OF BDSM WITH PIONEER DR GLORIA BRAME

June 10, 2022

Have you ever been shamed for wanting to try BDSM or even learn more about BDSM? Perhaps your partner or a friend has told you that BDSM is just “not right”. Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as they open up a conversation with one of the pioneers of BDSM, award-winning sexologist, and femme-dom extraordinaire, Dr. Gloria Brame. They discuss the intriguing lifestyle of BDSM and get advice on how to utilize some of the principles of BDSM to help overcome a sexual rut and she even explains where you need to begin before you actually start the practice of BDSM.

SEXY SELF-CONFIDENCE AND REAL BODIES

May 20, 2022

Are you looking for ways to increase your self-confidence, in and out of the bedroom? That’s great, because we all know that self-confidence is one of the biggest sexual turn-ons. Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, as they engage in an honest conversation about self-confidence and celebrate real bodies. Because everyone struggles with parts of their bodies they don’t like and we all have pre-conceived ideas in our heads about what we ‘should’ look like. By debunking some of those ideas, we could start to embrace our bodies instead of being ashamed of them.

SEX OVER 50 WITH DR LAURIE BETITO

February 25, 2022

Has your sex life changed since you turned 50? Are you longing to recreate that passion and lust for your partner that you had all those years ago when you first started dating? Join Stephanie and Fox, from Evolve Your Intimacy, with Sexologist, Dr. Laurie Betito, as they dive deep into discussions about passion versus sex, and find out how to ensure the viability of your relationship after the age of 50.

HEDONISM - NAKED AND NAUGHTY FIRST TIMERS

August 27, 2021

Are you open-minded and curious about ways to expand your relationship and explore your sexuality but your deep-rooted insecurities are stopping you from going there? Join us in a round-table discussion with Sex Therapist and Sex Coach, Stephanie and Fox, as we discuss how shame-based sex education and cultural constructs can create guilt and insecurities surrounding sex and sexuality and how we CAN overcome them with a strong, loving partner in a safe and non-judgmental environment like Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica.

SWINGING - WILL IT HELP YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

February 5, 2021

Are you seeking to elevate your sexuality and sexual freedom? Are you looking for guidance or counseling on sexual exploration, sexual enhancement, and sexual discovery? Or perhaps you’re simply looking for a sexual tune-up. Join us with Stephanie and Fox, hosts of The Kinky Koach Podcast and founders of TheKinkyKoach.com, providing licensed-certified professionals and educators as well as resources for those interested in expanding their sexual play and getting a better understanding of the various alternative lifestyles like swinging, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and hot-wifing, as we discuss what drives couples into consensual non-monogamy.

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